Culture, Mindset or Both?
You guys must have noticed the “Site worth watching” section on the blog sidebar. It’s been there a couple of weeks and features a different blog everyday. It’s called Entrecard and it’s a bloggers’ network. I’ve met some wonderful people through this network… people who understand what we are doing, and I have to tell you, it’s a nice feeling.
I have already mentioned Chris from Houndsgood and Jen from Save a Shelter Pet. Then there was this mention on Shop dog diaries (check out my last post here). This week I got to interact with Beth from “A frog to kiss – part girl, part geek“, and it was amazing how supportive she was of our cause.
This is what she wrote in a recommendation note for Paws Awhile on Entrecard:
Absolutely read and support this blog and cause. If you’re an animal lover it’s a must read.
Which brings me to the point: How come these ladies who are so far away from where we are, get what we are trying to do, and those closer home don’t? Is it a difference in understanding, culture or mindset? Or is it everything put together?
I will share with you a part of my conversation with a colleague. She wanted to know what it was that we were doing and how we wanted to proceed in our task. Worthwhile questions, that I tried to the best of my ability to answer. She also asked what it was that differentiated us from the others.
“You see, we are an awareness movement, not a bona fide rescue centre”, was what I told her, and cited an example to explain what our motivation was.
I travel to work through Lake Town everyday, and everyday I see a dog on one of the pavements who has been hit by a car. It has an injured spine and as a result can only use its two front limbs while dragging the rear end of the body along. The dog has been there for close to four months now, and everyday I dbeen witness to the same picture.
The shopkeepers in the area feed the dog that sleeps on the pavement, but no one has even for once given a thought about getting him treated. Why? Is it because they are not aware of what can be done, or is it because for most people “love for animals” is only limited to cuddling fluffballs that cease to be attractive once they are grown up?
My colleague actually offered an interesting perspective to the situation. First of all, she was quite honest in confessing that prior to our conversation she wouldn’t have given the said dog a second look either. “We as a country do not have it in our culture to adopt pets or look upon them as families.” she said. “Keeping pets is a probably a more recent practice in our country. May be that’s why we don’t come forward.”
Point to ponder, don’t you think? I’d really like to know your opinion about this. What is it? The culture, the mindset, or both?
Meanwhile, if anyone from Lake Town is reading this post, and would like to help this dog out, please leave a comment, and I will let you know how to do it. Believe me, it won’t take you more than a phone call, a signature and a little bit of your time.
This post has 7 comments
January 23rd, 2008
I love the name of your blog… =)
January 23rd, 2008
Hi Cecilia,
I am glad you liked the name. I actually thought it was a little cliched when I was naming the blog, but decided to go ahead because it stands for who we are.
Anindita
January 24th, 2008
Greetings!
I’ve selected Paws Awhile as a recipient of the “Thinking Blogger” Award. You can pick up your award here: http://saveashelterpet.blogspot.com/2008/01/thinking-blogger-award.html
Enjoy!
Jen
January 24th, 2008
One thing that has to be considered is the cost of fixing the dog. What I mean is that most people are struggling to make ends meet, are deeply in debt, and spend almost $1.25 for every dollar earned. When the choice comes down to taking care of my family or taking care of a dog (stray or personal pet) I have to choose to care for the humans.
January 25th, 2008
@sunnydaydreams
Thanks for dropping by and commenting.
I understand what you say and that is probably the reason why many discerning people would also opt not to come forward, but like I wrote in the post, it takes not more than a phone call, a signature and a little bit of your time. The signature, by the way, is not on a checkbook either
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There are voluntary organizations that help out these animals, and they do not charge you for it. You only have to inform them and hand the animals over to them.
That is where I am coming from. People do not know about the existence of such organizations. Fair enough. The fact that they do not lift a finger to find out whether they exist, is what troubles me.
January 25th, 2008
Thanks for linking and letting people know I support your cause.
I think for some people they view animals as just that-animals. Some have the ability to disassociate themselves from an emotional bond with a species who, “can’t help them.” Meaning-what does that particular animal do for you other than provide companionship. I’m one that has never been able to see an animal struggle- I had pet rats and although people made fun of me, they were still mine-living creatures who depended on me for their well-being. Some has to do with culture, how a person was raised and not respecting creatures of all types, whether they can speak or not. My mother and I have always said we feel bad when we watch a television show with an injured animal- more so than we do if it were a human-because that animal has no voice-other than us.
January 25th, 2008
Beth, I am a big fan of your blog. “A frog to kiss” has a place of honor on my netvibes page. I agree with you… a lot of it has got to do with how we are raised.
In India, this “way of being raised” is intrinsically linked to the economy. Most people used to be struggling economically until a few years back. The poverty shut out any question of being empathetic to anyone else other than oneself and the immediate family.
Unfortunately, even after the economic reversal that most of these families have witnessed, this culture/mindset hasn’t changed.
Think about this, we are a nation that worships the cow. But not many of us know that in the Hindu mythology, it was a dog that accompanied the Pandava clan (Hindu crusaders, if you may) to heaven.
I guess it is easy to remember your Gods when you are benfitting from the deity in some way (milk, bio-fuel etc.). There has never been much to steal from people who are struggling economically… so creatures like dogs have taken a permanent backseat.
…And honestly, you should visit an Indian city to see how well the “holy cow” gets treated by some people